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How to apply for a financial order without the help of a lawyer

Trying to sort out your finances as part of a divorce? This guide shows you how to apply for a financial order if you can’t come to an agreement between yourselves. It explains what you need to understand, what your other options are, how the process works, and what you need to do and how to do it. It will help you manage the whole process, step by step.

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The standard guide helps you apply for a financial order if you can’t come to an agreement between yourselves. It explains what you need to do and what a judge can do at the different hearings you may have to go to. It also includes a link to our short film that shows you how to fill in your financial statement (Form E).

Introduction

This guide is for you if:

  • you are or were married or in a civil partnership, and
  • you have started or finished divorce proceedings or proceedings to end a civil partnership, and
  • you cannot agree how to share out what you own between you, and
  • you are applying or thinking of applying for a financial order, without the help of a lawyer.

It is also for people supporting others in this situation, for example Personal Support Unit volunteers, CAB volunteers, advice workers, housing support workers and court staff as well as relatives and friends.

If you have what lawyers call a ‘high value’ case then this guide will only be of limited use. ‘High value’ cases are ones involving lots of money and property and possibly extensive business interests too. They often raise complex issues which we cannot deal with in this guide.

If you are or were living together as a couple but were not married or in a civil partnership then this guide is not for you. This is because your legal situation is different.

Although this guide focuses on the Applicant (the person who applies for a financial order) and what they need to do, much of it is equally relevant to the Respondent (the person who has to respond to the application).

If you apply for a financial order without the help of a lawyer, then the law calls you a ‘litigant in person’. It is possible that you and your ex are both litigants in person.

What does this guide do?

We help you apply to the court for a financial order by explaining what you need to do and how to do it. It also explains what a judge can do at the different hearings you may have to go to.

We try to explain any legal language as we go along, but there is also a jargon buster at the end for quick reference, see What does it mean? 

We do not explain what to do if you need financial support from your ex but you have not yet started divorce proceedings or proceedings to end a civil partnership. Nor do we explain how to stop your ex hiding or getting rid of money or property because they want to avoid having to share them with you. If you think you are in this situation, get legal help quickly. For information about where to get legal help, see More help and advice (financial order)

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Disclaimer

The information in this guide applies to England and Wales and is for general purposes only. The law may be different if you live in Scotland or Northern Ireland.

The law is complicated. We have simplified things in the guide. Please don't rely on this guide as a complete statement of the law or as a substitute for getting legal advice about what to do in the specific circumstances of your case.

The cases we refer to are not always real but show a typical situation. We have included them to help you think about how to deal with your own situation.

Acknowledgement

This guide was written and produced by Law for Life's Advicenow project. We would like to thank all those who provided feedback on this guide.

March 2017
What is a financial order?

When you split up there are lots of financial decisions to make. For example, whether to sell the family home, how to divide up your savings, possessions, other property and pensions; and whether one of you should pay maintenance to the other. A ‘financial order’ is what the law calls a court order that sets out these decisions. You can find a list of the different financial orders a court can make here: What kinds of financial orders can a court make?

A court can make these financial decisions for you if you cannot agree how to divide up what you own yourselves or whether one of you should pay maintenance to the other. If you can agree, you can ask the court to approve your agreement. Either way, the order that is made is called a financial order.

The law

You can find the main bits of law about financial orders here: Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 (see in particular section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973) and the most important court rules here: Applications for a financial remedy and here: Hearings and directions appointments

Before you can go to court

In this section we explain what you need to do before you start court proceedings.

Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAM)

Anyone thinking of applying for a financial order has to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) unless they are exempt or the order they are applying for is a consent order. This applies whether you are applying for a court order yourself without the help of a lawyer (you are a ‘litigant in person’) or you are represented by a lawyer and whether you have legal aid or not.

The purpose of this meeting is to:

  • give you information about how you might be able to sort out or divide up your finances without going to court; and
  • assess whether mediation is a safe way for you and your ex to try and do this.

You contact an authorised family mediator to set up a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. They will invite you to attend a MIAM either separately or together with your ex. You can find an authorised family mediator by searching here: Find your local mediator

What happens at a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting?

The meeting will probably last about 40-45 minutes. The mediator:

  • Explains what family mediation and other forms of dispute resolution are and how they work.
  • Explains the benefits of mediation, other forms of dispute resolution, and the likely costs.
  • Answers any questions you have about your situation and how mediation might work for you.
  • Assesses whether you are eligible for legal aid for mediation or will have to pay for it.
  • Assesses whether mediation or other form of dispute resolution is suitable in your case.
  • Completes the relevant part of Form A if you want to make a court application.

Family mediation

Family mediation is not the same as ‘marriage guidance’; it is not intended to help you work out the differences in your relationship or about getting back together. In fact it is the opposite; family mediation aims to help you to agree how you will live apart. In a situation where you cannot agree how to sort out your finances, a family mediator can help you discuss possible solutions. But it is not the mediator who makes the decisions or agrees to a plan; it is you.

Trained mediators can help you talk to each other and find solutions, even when it is hard. They are there to assist you both and can provide you with a safe and supportive environment where you can work out solutions together. But, nobody has to use mediation. Once you have been to the Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, you or the family mediator may decide there are reasons why mediation will not work. This may be because there has been domestic abuse in your relationship. It may be that one or more of you have a drug or alcohol problem or a mental illness. That problem or illness may create such a big risk that it isn’t safe for mediation to take place.

Circumstances when you don’t have to attend a MIAM

There are some circumstances when you don’t have to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. For example, if your application is urgent or where there has been domestic violence between you within the past 24 months involving the police or civil proceedings. (If you didn’t report it, you still need to speak to a mediator but can explain that you don’t want to use mediation because there has been violence between you).

You can find the full list of circumstances in which you can ask the court to agree that you don’t have to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (the law calls this ‘claiming an exemption’) in para 3.8 of Part 3 of the Family Procedure Rules here: MIAM exemptions

If you want to claim exemption from attending a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, there is a section of the application form (Form A) that you must complete if or when you apply for a court order. You can find a link to this form in the Forms and rules section below.

How much does it cost to go to a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting?

Charges vary from one mediation service to another and often according to your gross annual income. When you phone a family mediator to arrange a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, ask about how much they charge and about legal aid. Some make no charge for the Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting itself but charge for completing the relevant section of Form A.

If either you or your ex are entitled to legal aid then the initial Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, completing the relevant section of Form A and the first mediation session are free for both of you. After that, any further mediation sessions will only be free for the person who has legal aid. You may also be able to get legal aid for help from a solicitor during the mediation process. If you are the person who isn’t eligible for legal aid, you will have to pay for any mediation sessions after the first one. 

You must take documents proving what your income is and what savings you have to the first meeting. The mediation service will explain what evidence of your means they need to see in more detail, but if you are not clear what to take with you, don’t hesitate to ring them and ask. Without this evidence you risk getting charged because the service won’t be able to assess your eligibility for legal aid.

Forms and rules

You can find Form A here: Notice of an application for a financial order (Form A) and a Welsh/English version here: Hysbysiad o gais [o fwriad i fwrw ymlaen â chais] am orchymyn ariannol (Welsh/English version - Form A)

And court guidance about Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings here: Practice direction 3A - Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings

Legal aid

Legal aid is a government scheme to help people who live on a low income, have few savings and meet specific other criteria, pay for legal advice, representation and other help.

However, even if you are financially eligible, unless you can prove you have suffered domestic violence or abuse you cannot get legal aid to apply for a financial order.

Domestic violence and abuse is any controlling, coercive, or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse. The abuse may be psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional. To apply for legal aid, you must be able to give your solicitor some evidence that you have suffered domestic violence or abuse from your ex. For further information about what counts as evidence, see: Legal aid for victims of domestic violence

Legal aid is still available to pay for family mediation. Eligibility for legal aid depends on your financial circumstances. You can check if you are financially eligible for legal aid here: Check if you can get legal aid

If you do get legal aid, in many cases this is only a loan. If you are successful and get back or hang on to money or property you will be expected to repay the legal aid. The leaflet Paying for your civil legal aid - information for legal aid applicants (PDF) explains when you have to contribute towards or repay your legal aid and how to do it.

What does the court take into account when it makes a decision?

The law explains what a court needs to take into account when it decides how to divide up what you have between you. If you and your ex try and reach an agreement yourselves, the court expects you to take the same factors into account. And they also apply if you ask a family mediator to help you reach an agreement without going to court.

We explain these factors here:

The welfare of any child of the family under 18 years old
This is a very important factor and must be the first thing the court considers. In many cases, it can mean that most, maybe all, of your joint resources will go towards providing a home for your children. Typically the children will live with the person mostly responsible for their day to day care. This is why it is common to come across situations where the person mainly looking after the children stays with them in the family home.

The income, earning capacity, property and other financial resources which each of you has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future
This includes any increase in earning capacity which the court thinks it is reasonable to expect of you or your ex. This can mean, for example, that the court makes a decision based on the expectation that one of you will get a job or a better paid one. The reference to ‘other financial resources’ can mean, for example, money received or coming from an inheritance or a personal injury claim. If you have a partner, the court can take their resources into account when deciding how to divide up your money and property. So if, for example, you live in accommodation provided by your new partner, this may postpone the time when you get your share of the family home. This is because you do not need it immediately to provide a home for yourself.

The financial needs, obligations and responsibilities which each of you has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future
The main financial needs the court thinks about are housing need and income need. Where will you each live? How will each of you pay your bills? Ideally you will both end up with a home to live in. But if there is not enough to go round, the person mainly responsible for looking after any children day to day gets priority.

The sort of responsibilities the court can take into account include, for example, those you or your ex owe to a new husband, wife or civil partner, other children, elderly parents or other relatives.

The standard of living enjoyed by the family before the breakdown of the marriage or civil partnership
Although the court will take this into account you cannot assume you will enjoy the same standard of living as you had when you lived together. If you have been used to a high standard of living and there is still the money to support that, you can expect a similar standard when you split up. If your family had a low or average income, then you may end up less well off. What is just about enough to keep one family going often is not enough to provide adequately for two households.

Age and the length of your marriage or civil partnership
Age can affect what is fair in many ways. It can influence whether you or your ex is likely to get work and what your financial position will be when you each retire. The length of your marriage or civil partnership can also impact on the court’s decision. If it has been short, then it is less likely that your money and property will be divided equally. This is especially true of things that the court may see as belonging to just one of you, for example, an inheritance or property you brought into the marriage. If you lived together before you married or became civil partners, then the court may well take this period of time into account.

Any physical or mental disability
This allows the court to take into account any physical or mental disability suffered by you or your ex. The court will want information about any ill health, long term illness or disability and its impact on you or your ex’s earning capacity and housing requirements.

Contribution made to the welfare of the family, including by looking after the home or caring for the family
This aims to eliminate any bias in favour of the main bread winner and to recognise the contribution of the main home maker and child carer – whatever their gender.

Behaviour, but only if it was so extreme that it would be unfair not to take it into account
The basic position is that the court will not decide whether one of you has behaved more badly and is more responsible for the breakdown of your relationship than the other. And it will not then reward the better behaved one with more money. It has got to be really bad behaviour or behaviour which affects your finances before the court will consider taking it into account. Every case is different but the following examples give you an idea of the kind of behaviour the court may take into account: your ex sexually abused the children, your ex attacked you, causing injuries that left you unable to work, hid money in a secret bank account or had a gambling problem that seriously reduced the amount of money available to share out between you.

The value of any benefit which either of you will lose the chance of acquiring
This is about things that you or your ex are no longer going to benefit from as a result of splitting up, for example, the possibility of getting a lump sum or income from your ex’s pension scheme if they die before you.

Whether it is fair and reasonable to order a clean break
The court also has to think about whether and when it is fair to end your financial responsibilities for each other. The ideal is that you sort out your money and property in a way that means each of you ends up being financially independent of the other. But this is not always possible, for example, one of you may have to wait to get your share of the family home until your children have grown up or pay maintenance to the other.

What will I get?

How the court applies these principles in your case will depend on your individual circumstances. They are there to help the court reach a fair outcome. And why there is often no quick and easy answer to the question: What will I get? People commonly think that the courts automatically divide up a couple’s money and property 50/50. This does not always happen, particularly in cases where a couple only have limited money or property. Often a number of different, but equally reasonable results are possible in a case.

We have another guide that provides information about financial settlements for couples who are getting divorced or ending a civil partnership. It aims to help you understand more about what a judge might do in a case like yours, so that you have a better chance of making a fair agreement with your ex. You can find it here: A survival guide to sorting out your finances when you get divorced

For an estimate of what a fair financial settlement might look like for you, you can try using the Money Advice Service’s free divorce and separation calculator: Managing money - divorce and separation calculator.

The law

You can find the principles at section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 (as amended) here: Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 and Part 5 of Schedule 5 of the Civil Partnership Act 2004 here: Civil Partnership Act 2004 - schedule 5.

What kinds of financial orders can a court make?

In this section we explain the different financial orders a court can make. Courts can make one or more of these at the same time.

An order for maintenance pending suit
‘Maintenance’ is money paid to help support you or your ex. ‘Pending suit’ means that the money is paid in the short term, up until the case is finished or the court makes a different order. Maintenance is paid regularly at a particular time, for example, monthly. After decree absolute or final order it is called ‘interim maintenance’ until the court makes a periodical payments order.

Periodical payments order
‘Periodical payments’ is another word for maintenance. ‘Periodical’ just means the money is paid regularly at a particular time, for example, monthly. The difference between ‘maintenance pending suit’ and a ‘periodical payments order’ is that a ‘periodical payments order’ provides for maintenance to go on being paid after your financial case is over. The amount paid can be the same as or different to the amount paid as maintenance pending suit.

The court will specify either that the periodical payments order continues until you or your ex dies or the person getting the maintenance remarries or registers a new civil partnership; or that the periodical payments order ends at a specific point in the future, which you may hear referred to as a ‘term order’.

If you get a term order, you may be able to ask the court to extend the length (term) of the order as long as you do this before the time period runs out and there is no court order preventing an extension.

Once a court makes a periodical payments order, you or your ex can make a new application to the court to change (vary) the amount paid. If you are the person paying the maintenance, you might want to do this, for example, if you lose your job and so cannot afford the payments. If you are the person getting maintenance, you might want to do this, for example, if your ex gets a large pay rise so could afford to pay more in maintenance, or you lose your job or have serious ill-health so you are unable to work and need more maintenance.

Secured provision order
This is also an order for maintenance but one where the person paying the money has to give some security. A security is a right over something valuable belonging to them, for example an investment property or inheritance. This means that if they do not pay the maintenance, the person who was due to get it has another way of getting the money they are owed. These orders are very rare.

Lump sum order
This is an order that you or your ex pay a fixed amount of money, for example £2,000 or £20,000. The court can order you or your ex to pay a lump sum in one go or in instalments. The court can only make this kind of order if you or your ex has the money to pay it.

Property adjustment order
This order sets out what is to happen to any property you and your ex own separately or together, for example, your home, the contents of your home or a car.

The court can make a wide variety of property adjustment orders. For example, it can transfer property from you to your ex or from your ex to you or order the sale of a property and divide the profit between you equally or in a different way. The court can also transfer a tenancy (including council and housing association tenancies), for example, from your joint names into your sole name or the sole name of your ex.

If your ex is the sole owner or sole tenant of the family home, then it is critical you do not formally end your relationship by getting your decree absolute or final order before you transfer the tenancy or ownership of the family home into your name – if that is what you want. This is a tricky area. If you are in this position, get some legal advice as soon as possible. See More help and advice - financial order.

Pension sharing order
This order sets out what percentage, if any, of a pension belonging to you or your ex must be transferred to the other.

Pension attachment order
This order sets out what proportion of any pension income or lump sum belonging to you or your ex must be paid to the other.

Pension compensation sharing order
This is an order stating that any compensation from the Pension Protection Fund must be shared.

Pension compensation attachment order
If you or your ex are due compensation from the Pension Protection Fund, this order sets out what percentage of it must be paid directly to the other.

Nominal order
This is an order for a minimal amount of maintenance (for example 1p a year) to be paid. If you get a nominal order, this keeps open the possibility of asking for more in the future if your or your ex’s circumstances change, for example, because of your redundancy, serious ill-health or disability, or because your ex gets a large pay rise.

The court will specify either that the order continues until you or your ex dies or the person getting the maintenance remarries or registers a new civil partnership; or that the order ends at a specific point in the future, which you may hear referred to as a ‘term order’. You may be able to ask the court to extend the length (term) of the order as long as you do this before the time period runs out and there is no court order preventing an extension.

Clean break order
This order makes clear that your financial responsibility for each other is over. This means neither of you has to pay maintenance to the other on an ongoing basis. It usually also means that you cannot ask to inherit anything from your ex if they die. These orders are only suitable when there is enough money to make both of you self sufficient. The court will consider whether to make this kind of order in every case. It is not always the right thing to do; whether the court makes one in your case will depend on your individual circumstances.

Payment for legal services order
This is an order that you or your ex pay the other money to help with the legal costs of applying for a financial order. Legal costs are what you spend on a lawyer.

The court will only make this kind of order if the person who asks for the order can show that they have no other way of paying for their legal costs, for example, by getting a loan. The court will not make an order if it means that the person due to pay will end up not being able to pay their own legal fees or if it would cause them undue hardship.

When can a court make a financial order?

Courts can make interim and final orders. An interim order is an order to help support you while the financial proceedings are going on. A court can make an interim order, for example, for maintenance, at any time after you start your application for a financial order and before the final hearing. However there are limits to what a court can do during this time. For example, a court cannot make an interim property adjustment order.

A final order is an order made at the end of the financial proceedings. A court cannot make a final order until you or your ex have got a decree nisi or conditional order. A decree nisi is the order that confirms you are entitled to a divorce. A conditional order is the order that confirms you are entitled to end your civil partnership. And the final financial order cannot come into effect until the decree nisi has been made absolute or the conditional order final. At this point your marriage or civil partnership is officially at an end.

Warning!

Planning to remarry or register a new civil partnership? 

  • Any maintenance you get for yourself from your ex will stop if you remarry or register a new civil partnership. Maintenance for children is different: this does not stop if you remarry or register a new civil partnership.
  • If you have not already applied for financial help for yourself from your ex before you remarry or register a new civil partnership, it is too late! It is best to sort out your finances first, before you remarry or register a new civil partnership, because you cannot apply afterwards.
Sorting things out by negotiation and agreement

You can sort out your finances and who gets what from the family home by negotiation and agreement with your ex at any time – either before or after you start court proceedings. Whether you are successful will depend on the attitude of you and your ex to solving your problems this way. If one or both of you are not willing to negotiate or refuse to go along to mediation then you may have no choice but to go to court. However, all that happens if you will not or cannot negotiate an agreement, with or without the help of a mediator or solicitor, is that you reduce your joint assets by the amount you then have to spend going to court. This leaves less to share out between the two of you.

Reaching any agreement usually means being prepared to compromise – accepting less or paying more. And it may be worth doing this to avoid the uncertainty and expense of going to court. But how do you know what’s fair for you to suggest to your ex or for you to agree to? Understandably, you won’t want to get less or pay more than a judge would order. We have another guide that helps you understand more about what a judge might do in a case like yours, so that you have a better chance of making a fair agreement with your ex. You can find it here A survival guide to sorting out your finances when you get divorced.

Try and agree how to divide up your possessions. No judge wants to discuss who gets the sofa and who gets the kitchen table. You could suggest that one of you makes a list of all your joint possessions, gives the other a copy and then you each mark what you would like to keep. It may turn out you do not want the same things anyway! Where you do, then a little give and take (‘If you have this, is it okay if I have that?’) may mean you can still reach an agreement.

Reasons for sorting out your finances by negotiation and agreement (settling) instead of going to court or all the way to a final hearing (trial):

  • It can be less stressful for you and any children. √
  • It can be quicker. √
  • It can be cheaper. √
  • It can create more certainty about the outcome. √
  • You can include things in your agreement that a court cannot order, for example, that your ex pays a debt on your behalf.√
  • You and your ex decide what happens instead of a judge imposing their decision on you. √

Consent orders

If you reach a financial agreement with your ex, you can ask the court to approve the agreement and turn it into a court order. A court can make an order that you both agree with (the law calls these ‘consent orders’) at any time during the financial proceedings proceedings (as long as you have got a decree nisi or conditional order). This way, you get an official record of what you have agreed and a court can make sure that the agreement becomes reality – the law calls this ‘enforcement’. If you don’t turn your financial agreement into a consent order, and your ex changes their mind and will not comply with the agreement, the court cannot enforce it for you.

You will need to fill Form D81 Statement of information for a consent order in relation to a financial remedy - Form D81 and attach the consent order you are asking the court to make to it. You can find a Welsh/English version of Form D81 here Datganiad gwybodaeth am orchymyn cydsynio yng nghyswllt rhwymedi ariannol (Form D81 Welsh/English version).

You can fill in one of these forms together or do one each but even if you do one each, you have to see each other's forms before you send them to the court. The court may want to see you to discuss the information you give in the form and the order you want made.

This is a good moment to pay for some legal advice if you can possibly afford it, to:

  • check that you have filled in the statement of information correctly;
  • make sure that you understand the implication of the answers you give;
  • get help with the wording of the order; and
  • make sure that the wording of the proposed consent order achieves what you want it to.

For information about finding a solicitor see More help and advice - financial order.

If you have to draft a consent order yourself, you can find a sample financial remedy order here Family orders project: financial remedy order. It is very long because it includes a ‘pick and mix’ of different sections. It is quite possible that many of the sections will not be relevant to your case. But it will give you some idea of where to start.

Will an agreement or financial order impact on my welfare benefits?

Maybe! If you are claiming means tested benefits you should get advice about this before you start negotiating. See More help and advice - financial order. Means tested benefits include benefits such as Income Support, income based Job Seekers Allowance or Housing Benefit.

Generally, if you have no savings before you reach an agreement with your ex then you can receive up to £6,000 from them without this affecting your means tested benefits. (If you get Pension Credit, the amount you can receive before it affects your benefit is a more generous £10,000.) If you get between £6,000 and £16,000 from your ex, then the Department of Work and Pensions will reassess you and may reduce or stop your benefits. If you get £16,000 or more (£10,000 or more if you are on pension credit) then your benefits will stop completely.

Warning!

Entitlement to welfare benefits changes all the time. Check the impact of any proposal about how to split your money and property on your benefit income before you agree it. You can check your entitlement to benefits here Benefits calculators.

The process

Whether you are using a solicitor or doing it yourself, it’s useful to have an understanding of what is involved in a typical application for a financial order. Even though your case may be different, we hope it makes the process seem a bit less daunting.

You will come across lots of new technical words. This is the jargon that lawyers and court staff use. We think there's no getting around it; you have to understand what it means too. We explain these words here What does it mean? (financial order).

Sometimes we describe the court as ‘doing’ things, for example, sending out a form or making a decision. It sounds a bit odd because a court is really a place. But ‘the court’ is often used as shorthand to refer to the people working in the court.

The story so far.......
Pat and Mo have been married for 8 years. They have 2 children; one is 6 years old and the other is 4. Pat moved out a year ago and Mo has started divorce proceedings. Mo lives in the family home and looks after the children, although the children see Pat regularly. The house is owned jointly by Mo and Pat. This is a step by step description of how Mo applies for a financial order. We don't describe the steps Pat has to take as well. The procedure would be the same if Pat and Mo were a same sex couple.

START

1. Mo arranges a meeting with a family mediator. At the end of the meeting the mediator fills in the relevant part of Form A and gives it to Mo. Form A is the form that starts the process of asking for a financial order - for more information about this form, see Applying for a financial order.

2. Mo fills in a Notice of an application for a financial order (Form A) and signs and dates it. 

3. Mo makes two photocopies of Form A.

4. Mo sends Form A and the copies to the same family court that is dealing with her divorce proceedings. She completes Form EX160 applying for help to pay the court fee and includes that as well.

5. The court sends Mo and Pat a Notice of a first appointment (Form C) and Form A.

6. Mo checks Form C to find out what documents she has to prepare before the first appointment. Form C tells her she must send the court (and copies to Pat):

  • a financial statement(Form E) - the form you fill in to tell the court about your finances. Buy our extended guide for more information about this form and how to complete it.
  • a statement of issues - a brief summary of what you want the court to decide for you because you cannot agree them with your ex. Find more information about how to prepare a statement of issues in our extended guide.
  • a chronology - a list of key events in date order. Find more information about how to prepare a chronology in our extended guide.
  • a questionnaire - a list of any other information or documents you want your ex to provide. Find more information about how to prepare a questionnaire in our extended guide.
  • a completed Form G - the form that asks you to tell the court and your ex whether or not you will be ready to negotiate an agreement at the first appointment.

7. Mo checks Form C again and makes a note of the different deadlines – the dates when she must get these documents to the court and Pat.

8. Mo sends a copy of her Form A and Form C to the Tunstone Building Society – the company that lent her and Pat the money to buy their home.

9. Over several weeks, Mo collects together all the information she needs to fill in Form E fully.

10. Mo also starts collecting the documents she must attach to Form E as evidence of what she says in the form.

11. Mo fills in her Form E.

12. Mo and Pat agree a date (in good time before the deadline) when they will send their Form E to the court and a copy to each other.

13. Mo sends her Form E to the court and a copy to Pat as agreed. Pat does the same with his Form E.

14. Mo reads through Pat’s Form E carefully. She makes a list of questions about things that are not clear and about an insurance policy that he does not mention.

15. Mo prepares a statement of issues, a chronology, a questionnaire and completes Form G.

16. Mo sends them to the court and copies to Pat in time to meet the deadline.

17. Mo and Pat go to court for the first appointment. They both take copies of their documents with them and a notebook and pen.

18. The judge looks at all the documents provided by Mo and Pat. The judge decides that the court needs to know the value of Mo's and Pat's house. The judge tells Mo and Pat to instruct a surveyor to value it. The surveyor has to provide a report on the value in 4 weeks.

19. The judge also fixes a date for the Financial Dispute Resolution appointment. This is a meeting where the judge tries to resolve your financial dispute with your help and agreement - for more information about this hearing see The financial dispute resolution (FDR) appointment.

20. Mo and Pat instruct a surveyor to value their house. The surveyor sends the valuation report to the court and a copy to Mo and Pat.

21. At the Financial Dispute Resolution appointment, Mo and Pat take it in turns to tell the judge what they are finding difficult to agree and what result they are looking for.

22. The judge explains what order the court would probably make if this was the final hearing. The judge suggests a way of resolving the dispute and gives Mo and Pat a short break to think about the suggestion.

23. Mo and Pat decide that the judge’s suggestion is probably the best result they can get.

24. The judge makes an order.

25. The court sends both Mo and Pat a copy of the order.

FINISH

Going to court - the basics (financial order)

In this section we explain which court to use, where you can find the forms you will need and information about court fees and court rules (the Family Procedure Rules). We also talk about how much it could cost and how long it will take.

Which court?

You send your application for a financial order to the divorce centre for the region where you live, the same one that dealt with or is dealing with your divorce or ending your civil partnership. Any documents you have had from the court, for example the acknowledgment of service form or notice of issue of petition, will say ‘the Family Court, sitting at [the location]’.

You can find your regional divorce centre by using the Court and tribunal finder service here Find the right court or tribunal.

Forms

Your family court should have the forms you need and send them to you for free. If not, you can find the forms you need here Search for court forms and leaflets. Choose ‘Divorce/Civil Partnership Dissolution’ from the menu under the heading ‘Available types’ and then clink on ‘Search → ’.

In this guide we try and help you by including links to those forms that are most relevant. Where the form is also available in the Welsh language, we include a second link.

Most court forms seem a bit intimidating when you first look at them. A large part of most form filling involves giving factual information. Read though each form a couple of times to find out what information it asks for. Then get together the information you need before you start filling it in. Once you have done this, the job may turn out to be a bit easier than you first thought. It is unnecessary to use long words and legal language in what you write. The best thing is to keep it short and simple. Stick to what is relevant and try not to repeat yourself.

Family court fees

You usually have to pay a family court fee when you start (issue) financial proceedings. For information about family court fees and when and how to pay them see Civil and Family Court Fees or Ffioedd y Llys Sifil a’r Llys Teulu (EX50 - Welsh version).

It costs more to apply for a financial order when you disagree about what you want than applying when you agree.

In some circumstances you may not have to pay a fee at all or only a reduced fee if you have a low income. For example, you will not pay anything if you can prove that you get Income Support, income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance, Pension Credit guarantee credit, Universal Credit with gross annual earnings of less than £6,000, or income-related Employment and Support Allowance and your savings or other capital don’t exceed certain limits. 

You can ask for help paying court fees by completing form EX160. You can find this form here Apply for help with fees and a Welsh/English version here Form EX160 (Welsh/English version).

There are notes to help you complete the form here How to apply for help with fees and a Welsh/English version here How to apply for help with fees (Welsh/English version).

You have to complete a separate application for each court fee you want help paying. This may mean you have to complete this form more than once during your case.

If you do have to pay part of or the whole fee, it is possible your ex may be willing to share the cost with you, especially if you are applying for a consent order.

Family Procedure Rules

These rules explain what you need to do and when. You may hear lawyers talk about the ‘FPR’. What they are referring to are these rules. An individual rule often comes with one or more additional bits of guidance, called ‘practice directions’. You need to follow the ones that apply to your case. You can find the rules here Family Procedure Rules.

The good news is that only a few rules and practice directions are likely to apply to your case, unless it is very complicated. So it is not like a book; you do not have to start at the beginning and read all the way through to the end. You need to pick out the rules that are relevant to your case. We will try and help you do this by including any key rules in this guide.

How long will it take?

There are usually 3 stages in an application for a financial order: the first appointment, the financial dispute resolution appointment and the final hearing.

It can take over a year if you cannot reach an agreement and your case ends up going all the way to a final hearing. It may take longer if you or your ex is slow to share information about your finances or your situation is complex, perhaps involving things like a family business, complicated pension arrangements or a trust. But if you can reach an agreement, you may not need to go through all 3 stages. We explain each of these stages later in this guide.

Costs

How much will it cost?
You should only have to pay your own costs (and not your ex’s as well) unless the court decides you have run your case unreasonably. That might include not doing what the court has ordered, failing to turn up for hearings, misleading the court or your ex or carrying on trying to make unreasonable arguments. You may also have to pay one or more court fees.

How much it costs you will depend on whether you deal with all the paperwork yourself or pay a lawyer to do some of it for you. Lawyers charge for their time. So, usually, every time you write, email or phone, they will charge you for the time they spend reading what you say, thinking about what advice to give you and giving you that advice. The more often you contact them, the more time they spend negotiating on your behalf or representing you at court hearings, the greater the cost – to you.

If you use a lawyer, the key is to use their time carefully. Prepare a list of the points you want to make and questions you want to ask before you speak to them. Legal costs can add up to thousands of pounds. This is one reason why the courts encourage people to mediate and reach an agreement either without going to court at all or before the final hearing.

More and more lawyers offer packages of legal services for a fixed fee. Sometimes these services include a free first meeting. We suggest you ring round or email several to check what they offer for the price they are quoting. What will they do for you? What do they expect you to do?

Alternatively you can pay a lawyer to give you a specific piece of advice or do a specific task. So, for example, you might want them to prepare your application for a financial order, draft a consent order or be available on the phone on the date of the first hearing to answer your queries. If so, ring round and ask for a quote.

You can also consult a barrister directly without having to involve anyone else (for example, a solicitor). For more information see Public access to barristers.

Estimating legal costs
If you have a solicitor, they must provide the court with an estimate of costs at every hearing. This way you can see what is coming out of your shared pot of money and assets before it is divided up between you.

This estimate of costs must be provided on Form H. You can find this form here Form H and a Welsh/ English version here Amcangyfrif o gostau (rhwymedi ariannol) (Form H - Welsh/English version).  If you don’t have a solicitor, you may have to complete Form H yourself. Check with court staff at the court dealing with your case.

Applying for a financial order

In this section we explain who can apply for a financial order, how you apply, what forms you must fill in and what happens next.

Who can apply for a financial order?

Either you or your ex can apply for a financial order. You may have got used to being called the ‘petitioner’ (the person who starts divorce proceedings or proceedings to end a civil partnership) or the ‘respondent’ (the person who responds to these proceedings). But if you apply for a financial order, the formal name the court uses to describe you will change. You will be the ‘applicant’.

How do you apply for a financial order?

You apply for a financial order by completing a Notice of an application for a financial order (Form A) - see Forms and rules section below. Where the form asks you to tick boxes to show what court orders you are asking for, make sure you tick all the ones that might apply to you. If you are not sure whether or not a particular box is relevant, tick it anyway. This keeps all your options open.

Checklist for starting an application for a financial order

  • Get a copy of Form A - see Forms and rules section below.
  • Read it through to find out what information it asks for.
  • Collect any information you need.
  • Answer all the questions that apply to you.
  • Fill in your contact details correctly.
  • Sign and date the form.
  • Work out how many copies of Form A you need. If you are not sure, ask the court office.
  • Make enough copies of Form A
  • Attach the correct court fee or completed form EX160 applying for help with fees to your application.
  • Send your application and other documents together with the correct number of copies to the divorce centre for the region where you live - the same one that dealt with or is dealing with your divorce or ending your civil partnership.

Forms and rules

You can find Form A here Notice of an application for a financial order (Form A) and a Welsh/English version here Hysbysiad o gais [o fwriad i fwrw ymlaen â chais] am orchymyn ariannol (Welsh/English version - Form A).

The general rules about applying for a financial order (or ‘remedy’) are here Applications for a financial remedy.

You can find information provided by the court service about applying for a financial order here I want to apply for a financial order and a Welsh version here Rwyf eisiau gwneud cais am orchymyn ariannol (D190 - Welsh version).

What happens next?

The court office arranges an appointment for you and your ex to see a judge at a hearing roughly 12-16 weeks after you start your application. This hearing is known as the first appointment. For further information see The first appointment (financial order). The gap between applying for a financial order and the first appointment may seem long, but it is deliberate. You have got a lot to do to get ready for this first hearing.

The court will send both you and your ex a Notice of a first appointment (Form C). A notice is a bit like a letter. They are the way courts tell you what is going on and what you need to do next. This one tells you when and where you will first see a judge. It also tells you what you need to do before then.

How to fill in Form E

What is Form E?

Form E is your financial statement. You use this form to tell the court about your finances. You may hear a judge or court staff or lawyers refer to this statement as ‘Form E’. This is because ‘Form E’ is the form number. It is printed at the bottom of the form.

Be honest and provide all the information Form E asks you for. If you are dishonest or leave things out, then the court is less likely to believe other things you tell them. You don’t need to include information about your ex’s finances; they have to fill in a Form E of their own.

Buy our extended guide for detailed information about how to fill in Form E. In our extended guide we explain every question, section or box that we think are a bit tricky or easy to misunderstand.

When do I have to fill in Form E?

You must fill in Form E and send it to the court and a copy to your ex at least 35 days before the first court hearing (known as the first appointment). You may think this gives you plenty of time. But you will be surprised how much work is involved and before you know it the deadline will catch up with you. So don’t hang about or put it off thinking you have got lots of time.

Filling in Form E: top tips!

  • Try not to be put off by its length. The form comes in five sections. Most people find it time consuming to gather together all the information it asks for and to fill it in. It may be easier if you fill in one section at a time.
  • If you do not have any valuable possessions and few savings, are an employee or on benefits, then it will probably take you less time to complete.
  • Use Form E to tell the court about everything you own. If you are not sure whether to include something, put it down and the judge will decide whether or not to take it into account.
  • You can write or type ‘N/A’ (not applicable) in the sections that do not apply to you.
  • Take your time filling in Form E properly. If you rush it and make a mistake or forget to include something, it may look as though you are trying to hide things, even if this is not true. You risk creating a bad impression. If you deliberately lie on the form, you could be charged with perjury. The court is likely to take this behaviour into account when it makes its decision about your case.
  • Look out for the shaded boxes at various points in the form. They tell you what documents you need to attach to Form E to support what you say.
  • Keep copies of any letters or emails you write asking for this proof. That way if nothing arrives in time for the first appointment you can show that you have asked for it. If you phone, then make a note of the date and time of your conversation, the name of the person you spoke to and what you both said.
  • Watch Advicenow's film about how to fill in your financial statement (Form E) - How to fill in your financial statement (Form E) - film.

Forms and rules

You can find Form E (and a Welsh/English bilingual version) here:

Form E

Form E - Welsh/English version

You can find the notes provided by the court service to help you fill in Form E (and a Welsh/English version) here:

Form E: notes for guidance

Form E - notes for guidance (Welsh/English bilingual version)

Checklist of things to do before the first appointment
  • If you have a mortgage, send a copy of your application (Form A) and the notice of first appointment (Form C) to the bank or building society that lent you the money.
  • If you have a pension, ask your pension provider (or each of them if you have more than one pension) for a statement of your pension rights or benefits. You need to use Form P which you can find at Pension inquiry form (Form P). The pension provider might make a charge for providing this information, so ask first.
  • Fill in Form E and collect together the evidence to send in with it. Buy our extended guide for detailed information about how to fill in Form E.
  • Prepare a Statement of issues - find out more about how to do this and see an example in our extended guide.
  • Prepare a Chronology - find out more about how to do this and see an example in our extended guide.
  • Fill in Form G - find out more about this in our extended guide.
  • File a Questionnaire - depending on what your ex says in their Form E. Buy our extended guide to find out more about how to do this and see an example.
  • Send these forms to the court (and copies to your ex) within the deadline given on Form C.
The first appointment (financial order)

This is your first, short hearing with a judge. It usually last about 30 minutes. You and your ex must both attend. You call the judge ‘sir’ or ‘madam’. The aim is to make sure you have each provided all the information the court needs to work out how much you own, both together and separately. Take a notebook and pen with you to write down anything important.

If you are comfortable talking to your ex, think about getting to court a bit early and trying to see if there is anything you can agree between the two of you before you see the judge.

The judge can do a number of things at the first appointment, for example:

  • Give more instructions (the law calls these ‘directions’) about what you need to do before a judge can decide your case.
  • Decide which questions on the other's questionnaire you and your ex should each answer.
  • Decide whether your case needs the help of an expert to value something you cannot agree on, such as the family home.
  • If you both agree, make a final order.
  • Delay the case (the law calls this ‘adjourn’) for a while to give you both a chance to see a family mediator.
  • Treat the first appointment as a financial dispute resolution appointment and indicate what order the court might make if the case goes on to a final hearing.
  • Fix a date for a financial dispute resolution appointment. If it is clear that you are not going to be able to reach an agreement, the judge may just fix the date for the final hearing and not bother with a financial dispute resolution appointment. 

Frightened of meeting your ex at court?

If you are worried about meeting your ex at court because they have been violent or abusive to you in the past, phone the court and tell them this. Ask them to make arrangements for you to wait for the hearing in a safe place. When you arrive at court, ask security to show you where to go. You can also ask them to help you leave the court separately from your ex, perhaps via a different exit, after the hearing.

Representing yourself

Advicenow has made this short film to help you represent yourself in the Family Court - Representing yourself in family court - film.

We know that going to court without a lawyer is a very frightening and stressful experience and we want to help. The film looks at the questions people who have represented themselves told us they worried about most and shows you simple tips that you can use to help you put your side as well as you can.

Between the first appointment and the financial dispute resolution appointment

After the first appointment, you and your ex should complete all tasks given to you by the judge at the first appointment by the deadlines given. This may include, for example, completing your answers to each other’s questionnaires, sending these answers to the court and a copy to each other, and getting an expert to value your family home.

If you did not reach an agreement at the first appointment, the court will expect you to make a proposal for settling your case before the financial dispute resolution appointment - as long as you have all the information you need about your ex’s finances. If you have not really thought about what you want, you should do this now. If you rent your home from the council or a housing association, and the tenancy is in your joint names, do you want it transferred into your sole name? If you own the family home, should it be sold now or later? What is the fairest way of dividing up any money left over after it is sold? If you are going to stay in the home, do you need some maintenance to help you pay for the running costs?

This might be the moment to get some legal advice if you have not had any up until now. A family solicitor should be able to give you an idea of what the court will see as fair in your situation. You will need to give them copies of the papers you and your ex have sent to the court. See More help and advice - financial order.

You may also want to look at our guide to sorting out your finances when you get divorced. This helps you understand more about what a judge might do in a case like yours, so that you have a better chance of making a fair agreement with your ex. You can find it here A survival guide to sorting out your finances when you get divorced.

Once you have worked out what you think is fair in your circumstances, write to your ex (or their solicitor if they have one) suggesting a way of reaching an agreement in your case. The law calls this ‘settling’ a case.

If your ex makes you a proposal, the court will expect you to think about it seriously. If you or your ex refuses to negotiate, the court can order you to pay some of the other’s legal costs.

The financial dispute resolution (FDR) appointment

This is an informal meeting, usually lasting up to about 1 hour, where the judge tries to resolve your financial dispute with your help and agreement. You and your ex must both attend. If you have got children at school, try and arrange for another family member or friend to pick them up in case the hearing goes on longer than expected.

The address of the court where you need to go for this meeting will be on the notice the court sent you telling you the date and time of the hearing. If you are the Applicant, you must write to the court at least 7 days before this hearing takes place explaining:

  • what proposals you have made for reaching an agreement with your ex,
  • what your ex’s response was, and
  • what proposals your ex has made to you.

Enclose copies of the letters or emails you have written and received.

This is an example of the kind of information you should give the court:

‘On 30/6/16 I emailed the respondent and suggested that I should stay in the family home until Megan was 18 or had finished at college and then we should sell it and divide the proceeds 60/40 in my favour. He replied on the same date saying ‘no way’ and that he wanted us to sell the house now and divide the proceeds 50/50. I replied the next day explaining that I could not buy anything with that amount and so Megan and I would have nowhere to live. We have not made any other attempts to reach an agreement.’

You and your ex will each have the chance to explain to the judge what you want and why you think what you want is fair. The judge will want to know how you think both your housing needs can be met and how you will support yourself. If you need maintenance, the judge will want you to suggest how long this should last.

The judge cannot make a decision for you at this hearing. But what the judge will do is give an opinion about what the court is likely to order if your case goes all the way to a final hearing. The hope is that if you get an idea of the likely outcome in your case, it may be easier for you to reach an agreement. You will probably then get some time to discuss the judge’s advice to see if an agreement is possible. You may be able to agree some things but not others at this meeting.

It is a confidential meeting. This means that nothing that is said or discussed at this meeting can be mentioned at the final hearing, if there is one. For this reason the same judge will not deal with the final hearing as well as this one.

The judge can do one of three things at the end of a FDR hearing:

  • Fix another FDR hearing, or
  • Make a consent order, or
  • Give directions for trial.

If you cannot reach an agreement at this hearing, the court will give instructions (directions) about what you and your ex need to do next. This may include, for example, an order that you get an updated valuation and that you and your ex each file a ‘narrative statement’.

A narrative statement is one that sets out the case of the person making it with reference to the factors described here What does the court take into account when it makes a decision? (financial order). Use each factor as a heading and deal with each one in turn. Some will probably be more relevant than others in your particular case. This way you will provide a summary of the main issues in your case. You can attach evidence to your narrative statement but only if this is new evidence, that the court has not already seen. You must be careful not to mention the negotiations you and your ex had at the FDR hearing or what the judge said in your narrative statement.

The final hearing (financial order)

This is the last hearing; the one where the judge considers all the evidence in the case and decides what you both have and how to share it out between you and your ex. The judge will do this taking into account the factors described here What does the court take into account when it makes a decision? (financial order).

The judge listens to what you and your ex and any witnesses have to say. This is called evidence. Before you give your evidence you will be asked to swear (a religious oath) or affirm (a non-religious oath) that you will tell the whole truth. Not telling the truth is a serious criminal offence called perjury.

You and your ex each need to be prepared to give live evidence – to explain briefly what you are asking for and why. You also each get a chance to ask the other questions. The law calls this process ‘cross examination’. So think about what you want to say to the judge in advance and what questions to ask your ex and any witnesses they bring with them. And be ready to answer your ex’s questions when they cross examine you. The judge may well have questions for you and your ex as well.

If you are bringing a witness of your own with you, you must be ready to ask them questions, for example about what is in their witness statement or expert report, so their evidence can be heard by the judge.

At the end of the hearing you must be ready to put your final argument to the court to persuade them to your point of view about the order you want made. You should be able to work out most of what you want to say before the hearing starts. You have some idea of what the evidence is going to be from the various statements that have been filed. You also know what the strong points are in your case. But you need to take into account what actually happens in the final hearing, so be adaptable; you may want to make some changes on the day.

The judge you see at this hearing will not be the same one you met at the Financial Dispute Resolution appointment and you cannot mention what you talked about in that meeting here.

If you are representing yourself (speaking for yourself, without a lawyer to speak for you), then sections 3 and 4.4 of this guide are very useful: A Guide to representing yourself in court (PDF).

Taking a friend with you to court

You can bring a friend along to court for moral and practical support. But you can only take them into the hearing with you if you want them to act as your McKenzie friend (supporter) and they meet the relevant criteria. Tell the judge as soon as possible if you want your friend to take on this role. You can find the guidance explaining what McKenzie friends can and cannot do here Practice Guidance: McKenzie Friends (Civil and Family Courts).

The judge can ask your friend to leave the court if they behave in a way that interferes with the court doing its job, for example, if they make loud comments.

Top tips!
  • Get organised!
  • Write the case number on any letters, documents or forms you send to the court. This way they will get linked up with your case.
  • Collect information about your finances and keep it safe and organised.
  • Keep copies of any letters or emails you send or receive as well as court papers in date order in a folder.
  • Whenever you send something to the court such as a form or document, make sure you also send a copy to your ex. The court will not do this for you.
More help and advice (financial order)

How to find a family mediator

Ask friends and family for a recommendation or your solicitor if you have one. Or use the family mediator finder service provided here: Family mediator search It is fine to phone around, ask how much they charge and compare prices.

How to find a legal advisor

Ask friends and family for a recommendation. You can also search here:

The Royal Courts of Justice Advice Bureau (see: Royal Courts of Justice Advice Bureau) may be able to help you if you:

  • live in England or Wales,
  • have a case in the Family Court, and
  • are not already represented by a solicitor or barrister.

To book an appointment, please check their website for latest appointment details.

Paying for legal advice

Legal aid is only available to apply for a financial order in very limited circumstances. For more information see Legal aid (financial order). More and more lawyers offer a wider range of products and services than in the past. These include:

  • Free or low cost initial telephone consultations
  • Pay as you go advice – where you pay for the advice you receive at the time you get it. This can be helpful if you don’t mind doing some of the paperwork and admin involved yourself.
  • Fixed fees – where you agree in advance what you are buying and what you are paying for it. This usually applies to longer pieces of work, for example, to negotiate a financial agreement.
  • Online services that let you buy, for example, a DIY consent order with or without a clean break or a bespoke consent order – where a lawyer will manage getting the consent order for you.

It is okay to shop around and compare prices. Look carefully at what is and is not included to make sure you buy the right service for you.

Help with dividing your money, property and possessions

Wikivorce offers free support, information, forums and a calculator to help you work out how to divide your money and property. Helpline 0800 44 88 66 44 (for calls from landlines) or 01202 80 50 20 (for calls from mobiles).

The Money Advice Service offers free information and a calculator to help you draw up a budget so you can stay on top of your finances, work out what you have and what you owe and create scenarios for splitting what you have: Managing money - divorce and money calculator.

Help at court

Court staff may be able to explain court procedures or help you find a court form. They are not able to give you legal advice.

The Personal Support Unit (PSU) supports people going through the court process without a lawyer. Volunteers offer a free and confidential service. PSU aims to help you manage your own case yourself. PSU does not give legal advice or act on your behalf, but can offer practical help such as going to your hearing with you and help completing and filing your forms. For more information as well as the location and contact information for your nearest PSU, please visit Personal Support Unit.

Help and support for single parents

Gingerbread
Gingerbread’s Single Parent helpline offers support and expert advice on anything from dealing with a break-up, to going back to work or sorting out maintenance, benefit or tax credit issues. Helpline: 0808 802 0925. They also provide lots of information and support forums on their website.

Families Need Fathers
Families Need Father’s helpline offers support and a listening ear to dads, mums, grandparents and other members of the family. Helpline: 0300 0300 363. They also provide fact sheets and online support through forums.

Both Parents Matter Cymru
Both Parents Matter Cymru runs monthly support meetings and with Law Works Cymru and support from local solicitors provides free legal clinics across Wales. Helpline:08456 004446

Further reading

Using a divorce lawyer: ten helpful tips

Ten questions to ask your lawyer about costs (PDF)

A survival guide to using Family Mediation after a break up

A survival guide to divorce or dissolution of a civil partnership

How to get a divorce or end a civil partnership without the help of a lawyer

A survival guide to sorting out your finances when you get divorced

A survival guide to sorting out arrangements for your children

How to apply for a court order about the arrangements for your children without the help of a lawyer

A Guide to representing yourself in court (PDF)

Further information about the law and your rights

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What does it mean? (financial order)

We have tried not to use legal jargon in this guide. However, you are likely to come across it so here is our quick guide to what it all means.

Applicant – the person who applies for a financial order.

Application – how you ask a court to do something.

Chronology - a list of key events in date order

Dissolution – the legal ending of a civil partnership.

Divorce – the legal ending of a marriage.

Financial Dispute Resolution appointment - a meeting where the judge tries to resolve your financial dispute with your help and agreement.

Financial statement (Form E) - the form you complete to tell the court about your finances. For more information about this form, see How to fill in Form E.

First appointment - the first, short hearing with a judge. For more information about this hearing, see The first appointment - (financial order)

Narrative statement – a statement that sets out the case of the person making it with reference to the factors explained here What does the court take into account when it makes a decision? (financial order)

Notice – a notice is a bit like a letter. They are the way courts tell you what is going on and what you need to do next.

Notice of an application for a financial order (Form A) - the form that starts the process of asking for a financial order. For more information about this form, see Applying for a financial order.

Notice of a first appointment (Form C) - this tells you when and where your first hearing with a judge will take place. It also tells you what you must do before you see the judge and any deadlines you must meet.

Notice of response to first appointment (Form G) – the form you complete to tell the court and your ex whether or not you will be ready to negotiate a settlement at the first appointment.

Questionnaire - a list of any other information or documents you want your ex to provide.

Respondent - the person who responds to proceedings for a financial order.

Settle – sort out the case with your ex by reaching an agreement.

Statement of issues - An issue is something you disagree about. A statement of issues is a brief summary of what you want the court to decide for you because you can’t agree them with your ex.

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