When your employer gets your letter, they should invite you to a meeting to discuss your complaint reasonably quickly. Often the grievance procedure will set a timetable for this meeting, such as within 5 or 10 working days of receiving your letter.
There may be a delay while your employer investigates what you have said, for example, by talking to a colleague if you have made a complaint about them.
You must make every effort to attend this meeting. People often stall because it is stressful, but postponing the meeting can end up being more stressful. If you miss meetings, your employer may make a decision without meeting with you, meaning that you won’t have had the chance to put your views across fully. And if you end up going to an employment tribunal later, any compensation you get may be reduced, because you haven’t gone fully through your employer’s grievance process.
Taking someone with you to the meeting
The law requires your employer to allow you to bring a colleague or trade union representative to the meeting. If you are going to do this, let your employer know in advance so they can make any necessary arrangements, such as ensuring the colleague or trade union representative can attend.
You do not have a right to take anyone who isn’t from your workplace or trade union, for example, a friend or partner. If you would prefer that (or have a strong reason for such a request, for example, you need help with a disability) you will need to ask if it’s OK.
If the person you have asked to come with you cannot attend the meeting, you have a right to move the meeting by up to 5 working days so that they can attend.
Witnesses and evidence
Think about what you will need to prove the facts of your case (the law calls this ‘evidence’).
- If you have documents you want to use, find them and sort them into date order so that you can easily use them at the hearing.
- Check if your grievance procedure says that you need to provide copies of the documents to your employer in advance. If it does, then you need to do this.
- If there are documents you think are relevant and that only your employer has access to (for example, an occupational health report about you which you haven’t seen) ask your employer for a copy.
- If you want a colleague to be a witness, you should ask them beforehand, and get them to give you a short, written witness statement. Tell your manager the names of any witnesses you want to have at the meeting, so they can arrange for them to be released from work.
Taking notes at the meeting
It is a good idea to ask for a note-taker to be present. This is very helpful as it means there will be a proper record of the meeting and this will allow you to focus fully on what is being said.
During the meeting, if you or your employer says something that you think is particularly important, ask the note-taker to record that point. If your employer or witnesses are talking too quickly for your note-taker to keep up then politely ask them to pause or slow down.
If there isn’t a note taker, ask the person accompanying you to take notes. If you are alone, ask for a pause whenever you need to make a note yourself.
You should be given a copy of the notes after the meeting. If you are not, make sure you ask for them.
When you get the notes taken by a note taker, check them as soon as possible to make sure they are accurate. If you took a companion with you, you may also want to discuss the notes with them. Tell your employer about any inaccuracies in the notes as quickly as you can.
You can ask if you are allowed to record the meeting, but many employers will not agree. Generally, it is not a good idea to make a secret recording of the meeting and there may be issues with data protection, if people do not want to be filmed. Although employment tribunals often do allow these recordings to be used - if your employer finds out, they might dismiss you for doing this.
If an AI tool is used to make notes
If an AI tool has been used to make a note of the meeting, it is important to check that note to make sure it is accurate ASAP. This is because the AI tool may not always correctly pick up what was said, and this could become relevant in your employer’s decision.
At the grievance meeting
At the meeting, your employer should give you the opportunity to discuss your problem and to say how you want them to sort it out. They should remain impartial and consider all the evidence.
When they have heard what you have to say, they may end the meeting but ask for you to give them time to investigate your complaint before meeting with you again.
After the meeting
After the meeting your employer should write to you to you know what they have decided to do about your grievance.
They should also tell you that you have a right to appeal if you are unhappy with their decision. If they don’t, check whether your procedure gives you a right of appeal.
They shouldn’t tell you their decision at the end of the meeting, as they should take time to think it over.
Your grievance procedure may set out a timetable for when they must let you know their decision and they should give you the decision within this timescale. If they don’t, you should follow it up with them.
If they don’t give you a decision and yours is the type of grievance that could go to an employment tribunal, decide if you want to do this. Remember you may need to act soon to stay within the time limits.
Delays in the grievance process – employment tribunal time limit
Some grievances take a long time to deal with because they are complicated to investigate. Some take a long time because the employer is deliberately being slow to prevent you from taking the issue to the tribunal. Whatever the reason, if you have a case that you could take to an employment tribunal, you must bear in mind the time limits for doing this.
The basic time limit for an employment tribunal case is 3 months less 1 day from the act you are complaining about. But you must also use Acas’s Early Conciliation service first before you can start a claim in the employment tribunal.
If time passes and you are still waiting for your work’s grievance procedure to take its course and it looks like you could miss the deadline, you must lodge your tribunal claim. You can’t afford to wait or delay.
You are responsible for staying within the time limit for making an employment tribunal claim.
The government has committed to extending the basic time limit to 6 months less one day. This change is expected to happen in October 2026.